No wrong questions
Questions people actually ask.
If yours isn't here, you can always just ask us — no pressure, no commitment.
Would we stay in touch?
As much or as little as you want — that's genuinely up to you. Some families stay closely connected with photos, visits, and calls; some keep it lighter. We're open to whatever feels right to you, and we're happy to talk it through with no assumptions.
What would you tell them about me?
The truth: that you loved them enough to make the bravest, most thoughtful decision a person can make. Your child would always know your story is a part of theirs, told with respect and warmth.
Am I committing to anything by reaching out?
Not at all. Reaching out is just a hello. There's no obligation, no follow-up unless you ask for one, and no pressure of any kind. You're always in control of the next step, and whether there is one.
Do you have a big family around you?
We do. Grandparents live about twenty minutes away, there are cousins by the dozen, and nobody in this family is short on aunts. A child here would be surrounded by people who show up.
Have a different question?
Ask us anything. It goes to both of us and nobody else.